After several unsuccessful relationships, “Dancing with the Stars” judge Carrie Ann Inaba went online to meet the right guy and it worked.  According to Inaba, she met Jesse Sloan on eHarmony.  The 43-year-old star said that she was dating all these younger guys and she thought maybe she need to change it up a little.  The DWTS judge initially kept her identity secret while creating her online profile.

According to her, she did not put up a picture and anything about who she was.  She added that she was very forthright about what she wanted from a suitor explaining that he needs to be sexy and she needed to be attracted to him.  She said she really put exactly what she wanted, she love cats.  After laying eyes on Jesse’s profile, Carrie Ann said she felt something special.  She stated that he was the only they sent her and it just felt familiar.  In his picture, she felt that she already knew him.  She said that the guy took a risk because he did not know what she looked like or anything.

After months of exchanging e-mails – and still not showing Jesse what she looked like or revealing who she was – Carrie Ann took the plunge.  The star said that after a few months she finally sent a picture of her in Hawaii with no make-up.  According to Carrie Ann, they finally went out on a supervised date, come over to her friend’s house and it was awesome.  Inaba continued and said that she cannot believe she just shared that information.

Carrie Ann who appears on the November cover of Natural Health magazine and her fiancé have been engaged for months but the wedding ceremony is still yet to be planned.  She said that she does not know yet for the moment and she is not a good wedding planner.  She said she sucks and does not want to plan.  According to her, she want to do a private one in a backyard or in a beach.  The star also shared her eagerness to have a baby saying that at her age of 43 she has to get moving on the baby and the wedding can come later.  However, whichever comes first is fine with her.

Also on Tuesday’s show, Carrie Ann weighed in on Chaz Bono’s elimination and his claim that he was unfairly judged at times during the competition.  The judge said that she commended Chaz on what he was doing because what he was doing was very important in the larger scope of life but the scoring has to do with what they are doing dance-wise.  She said that they are able to separate the two, which in fact they can do.  They are able to look at the dance and just judge the dance and not what they are going through personally.  She said she actually thought they were pretty kind in general this year.  She also added that sometime people get offended by what they say, it happens.  They have to judge and that is their job.